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Gareth Thomas is undeniably one of the prolific and celebrated LGBTQ+ figures on the planet of British sport.

Along with his spectacular, record-breaking profession on the rugby pitch – which included serving as captain of the Welsh nationwide staff – Gareth has additionally acquired reward for having raised consciousness of points round queer id, psychological well being and destigmatising HIV.

For his newest enterprise, the rugby professional has teamed up with Ford for a new video series which goals to struggle discrimination in industries which might be stereotypically male-dominated.

“Robust Talks is all about sitting down with folks and giving them a protected place the place they really feel they’ll air the issues which might be round what’s a really very macho and generally poisonous masculinity sort of atmosphere,” he explains.

“What we’re making an attempt to do is get the tradition of this business up to the mark with 21st century considering and 21st century dwelling. And attempt to create change, as a result of tradition can break folks down and cease folks being genuine. And to achieve success, you want a various work atmosphere, you want folks to have the ability to be genuine, you want folks to have the ability to be one of the best model of themselves.”

To mark Pleasure month, HuffPost UK spoke to Gareth about how Queer As Folks offered an perception right into a world he’d “solely ever dreamt of” earlier than popping out, why It’s A Sin proved to be each an “addictive” and “disturbing” watch and his admiration for Blackpool’s Jake Daniels…

Who was the primary queer person you may keep in mind trying as much as?

However somebody I’d say now’s H Watkins from Steps, who’s a extremely good pal of mine. He’s most likely not someone that individuals would assume [I would say], as a result of he’s not somebody I grew up watching. He’s even youthful than me! It appears like a extremely weird one, as a result of I’m positive folks would assume, you understand, Peter Tatchell or Ian McKellen or someone like that.

However for me, he has the identical lived expertise as me, he’s from the identical space, he’s at all times celebrated who he is and he’s very lively in preventing for the rights of LGBT folks locally and the world that I do know.

H on stage earlier this year
H on stage earlier this yr

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What was the primary LGBTQ+ TV present or movie that you simply keep in mind resonating with you?

Oh my phrase, properly, I wasn’t out on the time, however I keep in mind watching Queer As Folk when it first got here out about 20 years in the past. And it was like an perception right into a world that I’d solely sort of ever dreamt of exploring or being in. It was a really fascinating look ahead to me.

It pushed the boundaries and received folks’s consideration and received folks speaking about what it’s prefer to dwell in that group. I’m unsure if it scared me, or whether or not it excited me in regards to the potential of, “OK, that’s what’s on the opposite facet of the door if I dare ever unlock it”.

Queer As Folk

Queer As Folks

What’s a tune you affiliate with your individual popping out?

The Freemasons’ remix of Right here Comes The Rain Once more by The Eurythmics, and I’ll at all times keep in mind it as a result of it was taking part in the primary time I ever walked into my first homosexual membership expertise.

The rationale it resonated with me was as a result of that was the primary second the place I actually noticed folks not worrying about what different folks have been fascinated with them. It felt like, for the primary time in my life, I used to be standing there, trying round, and feeling actually liberated. Each time I hear that tune, I’ve that reminiscence of seeing folks smiling, seeing folks holding palms, seeing folks not afraid to be themselves.

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What was the newest LGBTQ+ present or movie that made an impression on you?

It must be It’s A Sin, with no shadow of a doubt. For me, watching It’s A Sin, as a lot as I discovered it addictive and wished to binge-watch it, I additionally discovered it fairly disturbing. I dwell with HIV myself, and thru the work I do now, I do know lots of people who’re from that technology. They’ve advised me tales, however to see it performed out and the fact of what it was introduced it to life much more.

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I grew to become very appreciative of the occasions I dwell in now, the truth that I can dwell on medicine now. But in addition, I felt so related to, and helpless for, the individuals who misplaced their lives in horrific, horrific methods. They spent the remainder of their lives, after analysis, being locked in a room or being discriminated in opposition to or with folks not wanting to the touch them.

[Seeing] the fact of what occurred, and with my connection to it, I wanted I might have carried out one thing then, but additionally it made me extra decided to understand, “at the least I can do one thing now”. That gave me a way of motivation, but additionally a way of disappointment that individuals needed to dwell via that.

And I made positive that everyone that I spoke to watched it, as a result of I wished to guarantee that we by no means return to occasions like that. There may be at all times an opportunity in society that if we loosen up or if we cease speaking about issues, it’s simple to fall again to the best way issues have been.

The cast of Channel 4's It's A Sin
The forged of Channel 4’s It is A Sin

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Who’s your final queer icon?

Rising up, I beloved Dennis Rodman a lot. He was an awesome athlete, he was an awesome basketball participant, however he additionally at all times pushed the boundaries. He would put on a gown if he awoke and felt like he wished to – it didn’t outline him, he simply felt like he wished to put on one. He had tattoos and piercings and it felt, to me, he was somebody who had no disgrace round his id. And if his id didn’t match what another person thought it needs to be, that was someone else’s drawback to take care of, not his.

Dennis Rodman at the VMAs in 1995
Dennis Rodman on the VMAs in 1995

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Who’s a queer person within the public eye proper now that makes you excited in regards to the future?

It must be Jake Daniels, the footballer. It sort of blew me away, studying about him popping out. It was such a courageous choice – he’s 17 and he’s solely simply signed an expert contract. At 17 I used to be so immature, so to indicate that maturity and bravado at such a younger age, makes him such a optimistic function mannequin for that technology – and everybody else.

And now, whether or not he’s profitable or not, he’ll be capable of look himself within the mirror and say, “I gave myself each alternative”. As a result of if he failed, and he hadn’t spoken about his sexuality, he might have been left questioning, “would I’ve been profitable if I had been genuine?”. The truth that he’s prepared to place himself underneath that highlight and that strain, he’s prepared to take the failures or successes and thru all of it being himself, I feel that’s such a optimistic message for the long run.

Jake Daniels
Jake Daniels

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Why do you assume Pleasure remains to be so essential immediately?

There are so, so many causes. For me, Pleasure was not created or born out of a must rejoice however being homosexual, it was born out of a must struggle for the suitable to exist with out persecution. And we nonetheless dwell in a world the place there’s discrimination, no person on this world can sit down and say there’s zero discrimination in opposition to the LGBT group. There are nonetheless 69 international locations the place it’s nonetheless unlawful to be homosexual.

There are far-reaching messages from these Pleasure festivals and marches, that transcends borders and transcend communities. And it provides folks hope. If I’m going to a Pleasure, I don’t go there to rejoice me being homosexual, I’m going [to celebrate] my proper to exist with out being persecuted for it.

Gareth Thomas
Gareth Thomas

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What’s your message for the following technology of LGBTQ+ folks?

Everybody goes via life desirous to be favored by everybody. And that’s not essentially a nasty factor. However I’d like the following technology of individuals to understand that it’s OK to be disliked for being genuine, but it surely’s not OK to be favored for being a model of you that’s a model that different folks assume try to be.

I really feel that if folks don’t really feel the necessity to begin mendacity about who they’re, then life will likely be so much simpler for everyone.

Watch Gareth Thomas and Ford’s Robust Talks video under:

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